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Sometimes you stand so long at a crossroads trying to decide which way to go, that you don't realize your path lies somewhere else entirely.

"My story starts at sea... a perilous voyage to an unknown land... a shipwreck... the wild waters roar and heave... the brave vessel is dashed all to pieces, and all the helpless souls within her drowned... all save one... a lady... whose soul is greater than the ocean... and her spirit stronger than the sea's embrace... not for her a watery end, but a new life beginning on a stranger shore."

--Shakespeare in Love